The Glass Play Dildo Guide:
How to choose the perfect dildo
Dildos are designed to be used for penetration, however many of them also feel amazing on your clitoris and intimate areas too. Dildos can be used by everyone and can be a great starting point for those venturing into the world of sex toys for the first time. Many of them are designed to be realistic, complete with veins and balls and replicate the feeling of a penis. Others are sleek and smooth and are made of various different materials. I first tried a realistic dildo with a suction base that could be used in the shower by gripping it to the tiles or shower screen. Now, I can't go past glass dildo due to their weight.
No matter what dildo you choose to buy, using lubricant will help make it easier to enjoy and more satisfying to use during a slippery, sexy self love session. Dildos also come in such a wide variety of sizes.
Beginners dildos have around 5 inches of insertable length and get larger. They also have various girths.
Larger dildos can offer lengthy fun for those more experienced while our smaller dildos are great for beginners, those who are experimenting with anal for the first time or those new to sex toys altogether.
If you'd like to know how to choose the perfect dildo, here's a few more tips ... Enjoy!
1. Know Yourself First Before selecting a dildo, it’s essential to understand your own body and preferences. Take time to explore your anatomy, focusing on sensitive areas like the G-spot or clitoris. Consider whether you prefer direct or indirect stimulation and think about your experience level with penetration. Beginners should start with something slim, smooth, and shorter in length to gradually acclimate their bodies.
2. Types of Dildos When choosing a dildo, you can opt for either realistic or non-realistic designs:
Realistic Dildos:Â These mimic the appearance and feel of a real penis, often featuring detailed textures and suction cup bases for mounting.
Non-Realistic Dildos:Â These come in various playful shapes, sizes, colors, and materials. They allow for creativity and exploration beyond traditional designs.
3. Size Matters Size is crucial when selecting a dildo:
Length:Â Beginners may want to start with dildos around 4-5 inches long. More experienced users might prefer longer options (8+ inches) for deeper penetration.
Girth:Â A girth of 1-1.5 inches is recommended for beginners; as comfort increases, one can try thicker options up to 2 inches or more.
4. Materials The material of the dildo affects safety and pleasure:
Silicone:Â Body-safe, durable, easy to clean, but can be more expensive.
Glass:Â Non-porous and hygienic; offers temperature play but can break if dropped.
Metal:Â Provides excellent heat conduction; also non-porous but heavier.
Rubber:Â Inexpensive but porous; not recommended due to hygiene concerns.
5. Special Features Dildos may come with various features that enhance pleasure:
Vibration:Â Offers additional stimulation through varying intensities.
Texture:Â Textured surfaces provide extra sensations during use.
Curvature:Â Curved dildos are designed to target sensitive areas like the G-spot or prostate more effectively.
6. Lube It Up Using lubricant is essential for comfort:
Water-Based Lubes:Â Safe with all materials; easy cleanup but may require reapplication.
Silicone-Based Lubes:Â Longer-lasting but not compatible with silicone toys.
Oil-Based Lubes:Â Natural options that require careful cleaning afterward.
7. Safety First To ensure safe use:
Clean your dildo before and after each use with mild soap and warm water.
Store it properly in a clean place away from dust or bacteria.
Avoid sharing dildos without proper sterilization.
8. Make It Fun Explore solo play by experimenting with different motions and angles. When using a dildo with a partner, communicate desires openly and consider incorporating it into foreplay or other intimate activities.
By understanding these aspects of dildos—your body’s needs, types available, size considerations, materials used, special features offered, lubrication requirements, safety practices, and ways to enhance enjoyment—you will be well-equipped to choose the right dildo for your needs.
Love Soph xo
Sophie Joy is the 'face' of Glass Play, Sophie Joy's Toys and she writes all the blog articles for The Love Collection.
Comments